|
Element |
My Wishes |
Considerations/Notes |
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Budget |
I prefer that $5,000 or less be spent on wake, funeral and cremation. |
Have you set aside money for your funeral? Is there an amount (dollar or percentage) of your estate you wish to instruct your loved ones to spend? |
|
Point person |
Katie |
There is effort required to carry out your wishes (but much less because you have Final Roadmap). Consider designating a coordinator who can delegate, facilitate and be the decision maker, when required. |
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Funeral Service |
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Overall tone |
I hope there is some humor; nothing too somber. |
Traditional? Somber? Lighthearted? Celebratory? |
|
Music |
I would love to have a gospel choir. If not, upbeat gospel recordings will be fine. Do not allow “Swing Low, Sweet Chariot” |
Consider listing songs, musicians, singers, recordings, points at which you wish certain pieces to be played…Also consider songs you absolutely do not want. |
|
Readings |
I have attached 3 readings. |
As set by the church/synagogue/temple for the day? Favorite biblical passages, poems, or prose? |
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Reception after the funeral? |
Absolutely, at McNulty’s, my favorite bar. |
Y/N/whatever my loved ones decide. |